Entscheidungen zu treffen, fällt I sometimes difficult, I must admit. Personally, I've just taken a very important step, as I have known and for me to admit that I myself do not always have to choose yes. There is also a special - female - Quality in the stillness, the action-omission in the offering and the confidence that everything is the best and will fit perfectly.
wants And I do not generally promote the passivity and the not-acting. There are many things to change and to tackle what is, and in many cases it is necessary to do, to act to decide.
So if now is to make a decision, an important decision that falls me this is not often easy - of course, considering the scope of an important decision! Is a choice and an alternative, or even to offer more options?
An idea, a new definition of my idea about the nature of the decision, it makes me finally easier to decide.
"Make a decision" or "cases" at all, that sounds hard and I see literally fly down the ax, the one separated from the other. And I will not be comfortable with this idea so well. But I can also change the perspective and look now to the word "decision."
divorce means separation, we know that. A decision is therefore the opposite of a divorce, namely, the combination of things, energies, situations ... But what do I run together when they make a decision? Me and the best of all solutions! I need my focus does not depend on the exclusion, because if I am more of me and my welfare, the best result in all respects, the organizing, it's suddenly much easier to decide. Making a decision means to me together with my solution, with my best choice for me! And it feels like it much better!
This is not just a rhetorical trick, but a reorganization energy, and a new definition of "me "Decide. So I've decided not to fight me, the longer the hair, but my bearings and the outcome - if I have to do something - take me to gracefully with the best solution together. I allow her that she shows me so I can pick and enjoy them, like a ripe apple.
© Ina Martina Klein, Neufahrn in March 2010
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